Men who are 15 or even 20 years older can appear more confident, more stable, and even sexier than their younger counterparts. An older date may have interesting stories to tell about his life, and he can expose you to a new world with exciting adventures.
When a younger woman calls her date mature, she's not just referring to his age. An older man has a better sense of himself. He's well established in his career and his life. He doesn't engage in late-night drinking binges with his friends. Instead, a much older man has reached a more settled point of his life. He doesn't want to pick up a variety of women; instead, he is often looking to establish a serious relationship with just one woman.
His Experience Counts
When it comes to sex, an older male is perceived as knowing his way around the bedroom. He's had to time to perfect his technique, and he can show his younger lover a good sexual time.With an older man, women don't expect any awkward moments in the dark. They expect the guy to know exactly what he is doing and to take the time to meet their needs.
Ready for Commitment
Many older guys have already had time to experiment and play the field. Now, they are looking to settle down and commit to a long-term relationship or even to marriage. At this point in his life, he knows that he doesn't want to be alone, and he knows the type of woman who will make him happy. If they have not already had children with previous spouses, older men may wish to immediately marry and start a new family, Women who are ready to marry and have children find that much older men may be the perfect fit for them.
Better at Communicating
Women are drawn to older men because they are better communicators. Men with an age advantage of 15 years or more have already been through previous relationships. They have learned from their mistakes. They will try not to repeat these actions as they work on a new relationship. Older guys may dwell less on jealousy issues and instead focus on communicating clearly with you so that there will be no misunderstandings. He will be ready to work at making this relationship succeed.
Putting up a picture is the most important part of making your online profile. We covered in our last guide how tocreate the perfect profile to attract women looking for a sugar daddy, but we didn’t go into the most important part in depth yet.When asked what kind of older man they like, most girls will say “Like George Clooney.”
Get a pic in a suit or tux.
Get a pic of you on a boat or in a foreign city.
For men dating younger women, one of the most important things to remember is that women look at the picture first. If you’re clicking on a girl, you won’t read her summary if her profile picture is fugly and gross.
Girls are the same, but what they’re looking for in a man’s picture, especially what they’re looking for in a sugar daddy profile picture on the best dating sites, is totally different from what you’re looking for. You’re probably mostly looking for how hot the girl is, but girls look for more than that, which a lot of guys forget about.
The first rule of photography for a dating site profile picture is to go for the “George Clooney Effect.”
George Clooney isn’t that handsome or magic, but he does have a way of attracting hot young women. It’s not very hard to give yourself the same kind of look.
Don’t try too hard to be like someone else; take the best picture of YOU that you can. If it doesn’t look like you, you won’t be comfortable living up to the picture. You want a picture that highlights you to the best of your natural self, not one that tries way too hard to make you look like someone you aren’t, when that’ll be obvious when you meet your sugar baby for the first time anyway.
If you’re not sure how to get the George Clooney Effect, just remember everything we went over when we talked about setting up a profile on sugar daddy sites. If it makes you look cool and classy and busy, it’s probably for the best. If it makes you look nice and pathetic, get rid of it.
A nice suit or tux is to women what sexy lingerie is to men. It instantly speaks of money and refinement. Remember your target audience: most of the guys asking these girls out don’t own a suit. Most of them wouldn’t even know where to rent one. These girls want to think about themselves on a rich man’s arm while they go to important parties and spend time on yachts in different countries. They don’t want to go to beer pong parties, or they’d date guys in their age groups.
If you have a picture of you looking classy on a boat or in a foreign city, now is definitely the time to pull it out.
If you don’t have one, make sure you have a good friend who’s skilled in photoshop. Someone who knows what he’s doing will make it so it’s very difficult to tell where the picture was initially taken, and the girls will immediately be able to look at the picture and want to go with you.
It’s important to make sure the girls you’re going after feel like they’d be lucky to be at your side. They should be looking at the empty space next to you and thinking how stupid other girls are that aren’t climbing all over you.
If you make your profile picture look exotic and intriguing, girls will immediately want to get to know you better. This is more than half the battle, because it’s very easy to get a girl to want to be with you once you’ve already got her interested. Next, we’ll deal with how to talk to sugar babies online, dealing properly with these girls.
Your sugar daddy dating profile is the first thing girls see when they click on your picture. If she likes what you’ve put up there, that’s a huge point in your favor. Fortunately, we can help you get your profile set up so younger women will want to get to know more about you.
There are four main things to remember when you’re making your sugar daddy dating profile.
First, remember to stay classy. There is a VERY BIG distinction between classy and cheesy. You must not cross this line!
Girls on sugar daddy dating websites, especially the girls that you want to get to know, aren’t looking for husband material. You don’t want girls that are looking for husband material, and you definitely don’t want to come off looking like you’re a cheesy guy either looking to get laid or looking for a wife.
Whatever you do, don’t put down that you like long walks on the beach and you love your dog and kids. This is not the image you want to create. You want to come off like a guy with priorities and a life. Once you set that important tone, make sure to stick to it. Don’t go for the fluffy family man image, that’s not why you’re here.
Second, strike a balance between sounding like a jerk and a “nice guy.” You don’t want to come across as an asshole, or women won’t want to hook up with you. But if you try too hard to sound “nice,” you’ll risk coming off either as a pathetic guy who’s desperate for love, or someone that just wants families and kids. Neither of these will attract the kind of woman you’re looking for.
We’ve done some experiments on how to strike this balance.
The best thing to say is that you love spending time with women, but find it hard to find a special girl that understands your ambitions and passions. This is a HOME RUN. It says that you’re not willing to compromise on what you want out of life, and that a girl should be willing to fit herself into your awesome life. This is exactly the vibe you want to send.
Third, remember the psychology of your target. You’re here trying to find a hot younger woman to score with. Remember that she is here looking for a successful, rich man. The kind of woman you’re looking for thinks she’s a good fit for this kind of man.
You don’t want women who aren’t looking for sugar daddies.
There are plenty of these on sugar daddy websites. Remember that trying to appeal to a wider range of girls will most likely just get you messages from escorts and hookers, not to mention all the fake girls that will come out of the woodwork to try and meet you.
We’ll cover making yourself seem richer than you are in later parts of this guide; just remember that making yourself look like the kind of man women want to date is crucial if you want to be a sugar daddy, or at least come across as one online.
Fourth, keep it short.
This is a piece of advice that often gets ignored. However, keeping your profile short is a very important tip. You don’t want it to seem like you spend a long time thinking about how to get women—you should seem like a busy man who would prefer a woman to fit herself into his schedule.
500 words or under should do the trick for most profiles. You shouldn’t have any more to say than that.